| Location | Doncaster |
| Age | 0 |
| Date of Birth | 7/2007 |
| Date of Death | 7/2007 |
| Visitors | 3,401 since 02/10/2007 |
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Harry, You are so missed. There has never been a more wanted or loved baby.
I remember telling Granny and Grandad that I was pregnant and that you were on your way. I have never felt so happy and proud.
At your first scan Daddy and I cried because we could already see how beautiful you were going to be.
You got your nickname Ravi within a matter of days of being made. You see we 'got' you from Rome and we called you Ravioli which was shortened to Ravi.
Even when my waters broke and I knew deep down that it would probably all go wrong, I never gave up hope of being able to keep you, but it wasn't meant to be.
You had the last laugh on the day you were born! We were told you were a little girl at the last scan and then when you arrived you were a little boy, and we always knew you would be!
I wish that I could have done more to save you, to keep you here but I am glad that you didnt suffer. I had you for 14 hours and 21 minutes and I would choose to have all this heart ache so that I could have that time rather than to never of had you all.
You were born at St James' Hospital in Leeds on 20th July 2007. We were taken there in an ambulance with the blue lights flashing at 4.30am! They had a bed for you there. You were born at 9.39pm.
You were 14 weeks premature but you were the image of your Daddy with all your curly black hair. You left us the next day at 12.00. We were with you when you went to heaven and we told you to go to your Great Granny and that she would care for you till we all meet again one day.
I will always love you and I will always miss you and if I am blessed with Children in the future I will tell them all about you and what a wonderful big brother you would have made. Night Night My Angel xxxx
love
well harry ive never met you but ive met your little sister hannah i think if you was still here she would have been the boss shes lovely and cheeky with it.
god bless you harry
love from beryl and andrew xxxxx
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Happy Birthday
Well Harry its been one whole year since we first saw your beautiful face. A year since we held you, first said that we love you. A year since our hello and our good bye.
The pain never gets any easier. They say that time is a healer but for us the pain is as raw now as it has ever been.
People who have never lost a child think that out of sight out of mind but that is far far from the truth of living without your baby.
We are so so thankful that you sent Hannah to us and that you made her better and you keep her safe and healthy. But as much as we love her she isnt a replacement. Hannah is Hannah a person in her own right and you are you. We love you and miss you just as much. We just wish that we could have you both with us.
Everyday we are trying to be the best parents that we can possibly be not only because we love Hannah and want to give her the best we can but also because we promised you that we would. Do you know it all comes to us easily, being the best parents we can be. We just wish that it had been enough to keep you, but God has other plans for you.
We had a lovely party today with all you family. We sang Happy Birthday, had balloons, a cake with a candle, and lovely food. We hope that you could see the people who love you and miss you. Send special kisses to those lovely people who sent cards and messages to Mummy and Daddy this week, they all remembered. We know that your great-grannies will have had a big party for you today with all your angel friends.
Tommorrow we will go to the crem with some flowers and leave them with Daisy for you.
Sorry we've not been on here for a while but it has been so much more difficult to read things or to think about you over the past few months. Perhaps its because of the problems we have faced with Han Han. But you know that you are never very far from any our of thoughts.
We love so so much
Happy 1st Birthday sweetheart
Love
Mummy, Daddy, Hannah and Molly Moo xxxxxxxxxxxx
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Harry, Hannahs Guardian Angel
It's always an exciting time, a long awaited birth
and your precious baby is here at last, so an angel has come to earth.
And now your lovely new born has a very special guide,
For there is a guardian angel, who'll stay by your baby's side.
Now your little one's protected and watched over every day,
for an angel holds a tiny hand and will gently lead the way.
A big Favour from you Harry
Harry
You sweet sweet boy, I am going to ask you something very important now and if you need Matthew's help then please go ask him too. You must look over mummy and daddy and your baby sister too, the next week and two are very very important and if they have ever needed prayers then now is the time.
Be a brave boy and do whatever you can ...within your power to keep them all safe.
Sending you lots of love, Denise x x x
I've loved my child right from the start
A feeling that’s filled my entire heart
I went through the labour and suffered the pain
For many long hours with nothing to gain
I've spent sleepless nights being awake
Though it's been a while my arms they still ache
I've sat and I've wondered of how he would grow
The love of my family that he'd come to know
The sound of his voice as he learns to talk
Watching his steps as he tries to walk
I have a child that I really love so
I am his mother yet nobody knows
I spent all those months feeling him grow
I've lived through it all and have nothing to show
I don't get invited to chat with young mothers
Because I don't have a baby like all of the others
I've go some stretch marks that I'd like to hide
But I don't have a pram with a baby inside
The people I’ve known for so many years
They now avoid me, which adds to my tears
I don't know how long I'll be feeling like this
But one thing I know my baby I miss
When Mothers Day comes it will be very hard
I won't have any flowers, not even a card
And just because he's not here with me
I still have a son I wish I could see
But one thing I know and this is for sure
I'll be his mother for evermore
so sorry
I am so sorry for your loss, Harry is a gorgeous little boy. I am glad you got a few precious hours with your little man. R.I.P Harry, I hope you are playing football xx
MERRY 1st CHRISTMAS!
MERRY 1st CHRISTMAS little boy! I hope you have had a wonderful christmas with your mummy and daddy and all your angel friends too! I bet you and my Keiron have made a nice mess between you's!!! Well, sweet dream hunny, send a angel kis to you mummy from me! All my love. xxxx
Our Harry
When Mummy had her first scan with you, you wrote me a letter, with her help! (I will treasure this forever) You told me you were going to be a footballer and play for Daddy's team as you liked kicking a lot.
Sadly this wasn't to be, but I'm sure you'll be the star player for the Everton Little Angels.
Have fun little man, have a happy christmas and look after Suzy for us.
Lots of love and cuddles, Grandma xx
A man in grief
To be a man in grief
since 'men don't cry' and
'men are strong'
no tears can bring relief.
It must be very difficult
to stand up to the test
and field calls and visitors
so she can get some rest.
They always ask if she's alright
and what she's going through
but seldom do take his hand and ask
'my friend, but how are you?'
He hears her crying in the night,
and thinks his heart will break,
he dries her tears and comforts her,
but 'stays strong' for her sake.
It must be very difficult
to start each day anew,
and try to be so very brave-
he lost his baby too.
I know your hurting just as much as me and I love you for being there for me always xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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